A cancer diagnosis can be devastating. You may be worried about the impact on your long term health, medical bills, and the toll your treatment will take on your family. You are right to worry about these things, and you may think that beauty is the last thing that you should think about. While your appearance may have to take a backseat to other things at this difficult time in your life, don't forget how important it is for you to feel good about yourself. A little attention to your appearance can be enough of a pick-me-up to keep your spirits high. No matter your diagnosis, whether mesothelioma from asbestos exposure, skin cancer, colon cancer, or any other type of cancer, staying upbeat and confident is very important through your treatment. If you are facing chemotherapy and likely to lose your hair, consider getting that bold short haircut that you were always too afraid to get before. Not only will you get to see how it looks and learn how to style it, but if your hair does fall out, having shorter hair will make it less messy when or if you do start losing your hair. If you do lose your hair, it is your choice whether you want to wear no hair, a headscarf/hat, or a wig. Do what feels right to you. If you cannot afford a wig, there are organizations out there that can help you, don't be afraid to ask. If you lose your eyebrows, you can learn to convincingly draw them on or you can even buy fake eyebrows to apply. There are certain chemotherapy drugs that may turn your nails black, so now is a good time to get yourself some pretty nail polishes and take some time to give yourself a manicure. You can do your own nails, or arrange some time with friends to do each other’s nails. This can be great bonding time and something simple you can ask of someone who has asked how they can help you get through this time in your life. New clothes or shoes can also be a great morale booster. Whether you go to a department store, thrift store, or organize a clothing exchange with friends, just having something new to put on can make a world of difference in how you feel. While you may feel that worrying about your appearance is the last thing that you should do now, just realize that you should only do it for yourself. If you will feel better with a wash of bronzer, some lipstick, a comfortable skirt, and some cute shoes, then make it happen. The key is to only worry about the things that make you feel better, the things that give you confidence, not anything that anyone else expects of you.