Enjoyment
You could be eating all the most amazing "superfoods" in the world, but if you are grumpy, sad, and unhappy eating them, they won't do you any good. When you feel like that, you won't absorb the good, your digestion will suck, and you won't process & metabolize the food properly.
If you are happy, relaxed, and excited to eat what's in front of you, then your body actually prepares itself to digest, assimilate, metabolize and process it efficiently. This includes yummies like ice cream or chocolate cake: if you are really happy to eat it, and truly enjoy it while you do, you'll probably feel better afterwards than if you were eating oatmeal when you're upset. {And no, i'm not here to promote the ice cream only diet, but am simply encouraging you to really enjoy your treats & your oatmeal, when have them!}
I have personally experienced way less upset belly eating foods that i'm even allergic to, when I eat them with joy! I have also experienced feeling crappy after eating macro food while upset.
So, eat what you like! Enjoy what you're eating. The recipes I put on here, are on here because I truly love & enjoy them.
If you really love baked goods, choose the ones you really really want, perhaps homemade from scratch or from a delicious bakery, and then savor & enjoy them! There's a reason why "French women don't get fat," and that's because they savor what they eat, and feel great about it, without worrying about how much butter or sugar there is in it. It is just as possible to be unable to lose weight while strictly dieting & restricting your food choices as it is possible to be light in the body while enjoying whatever food comes your way.
A really interesting study was done that involved that kind of idea. I can't remember exactly where I read this, maybe in psychology class, so i'll just paraphrase what I remember: they showed people from different countries pictures, and asked what the first word that came to mind was. One of the pictures was of chocolate cake. North Americans' typical 1st response included words like "guilt," "bad," "shouldn't" & Parisians' responses included "celebration," "love," "enjoyment." So do you want to eat guilt & badness or do you want to ingest love & celebration?
And so, this fine morning, I happily toast my coffee to you and your food freedom.
Lose the judgment. Lose the food rules. Whether it's Sunday Brunch with your mom's famous cinnamon rolls, pizza & wine with friends, miso soup, or a full-on Macro feast, eat your food with love, and after, pause to listen to your body for feedback.
Any thoughts on this? Personal experiences?